Sharing Her Joy
Note: Names have been shortened because I know this will embarrass said parties a little. I just wanted to post this because it's been on my mind. And if you know who I'm speaking of, please do not mention it. At all. Thanks.Friendship's about sharing, isn't it? So you can imagine my reaction when B. took me aside last week.
"G. and I are together now!" she whispered in my ear. My eyes widened and we started to giggle.
"Really? Where? When?" We talked about the details in hushed tones, and I ribbed her about how I seemed the last to know.
Not that I was the last to know, you understand. It was just fun to watch her feel self-conscious; it doesn't happen very often.
"I'm so embarrassed," she announced before we parted. She was embarrassed, all right; she was also really happy.
I was just happy that she was happy, if that makes sense. Her other friends and I have agreed that if G. does something stupid, he'll get quite an earful from us. Of course, we're not saying we
run their relationship! We would stick up for B. though if he was really wrong.
Why do I mention this relationship in my blog? I guess it just takes getting used to. You could say it brings back some memories, dear Reader.
And it's all G.'s fault, as B. and I jokingly say. If he hadn't been in "like" with me back then, we wouldn't have all this awkwardness to sift through. B. wouldn't have to worry about whether I'd be OK with her happiness. We wouldn't have to rehash our friendship and see if there would be a strain.
But I think it was great for B. and me. We became a lot closer, and we learned to laugh at our situation. Who wouldn't laugh when we realized I could totally understand her when she talked about meeting G.'s parents?
I am over G. though, if anyone asks. And my gosh, a lot of well-meaning people have asked.
There were things about him that just weren't right for me. But that doesn't mean they aren't right for B.
I'm just glad B.'s in the best place she could be now. And I'm glad our friendship's more than boys and other not-so-important things.
I wish them both well. I just wanted to say I love you, B., and I love all our other friends. And that won't really change.
Daisy on 2/28/2008 11:44:00 AM
Sharing Her Joy
Note: Names have been shortened because I know this will embarrass said parties a little. I just wanted to post this because it's been on my mind. And if you know who I'm speaking of, please do not mention it. At all. Thanks.Friendship's about sharing, isn't it? So you can imagine my reaction when B. took me aside last week.
"G. and I are together now!" she whispered in my ear. My eyes widened and we started to giggle.
"Really? Where? When?" We talked about the details in hushed tones, and I ribbed her about how I seemed the last to know.
Not that I was the last to know, you understand. It was just fun to watch her feel self-conscious; it doesn't happen very often.
"I'm so embarrassed," she announced before we parted. She was embarrassed, all right; she was also really happy.
I was just happy that she was happy, if that makes sense. Her other friends and I have agreed that if G. does something stupid, he'll get quite an earful from us. Of course, we're not saying we
run their relationship! We would stick up for B. though if he was really wrong.
Why do I mention this relationship in my blog? I guess it just takes getting used to. You could say it brings back some memories, dear Reader.
And it's all G.'s fault, as B. and I jokingly say. If he hadn't been in "like" with me back then, we wouldn't have all this awkwardness to sift through. B. wouldn't have to worry about whether I'd be OK with her happiness. We wouldn't have to rehash our friendship and see if there would be a strain.
But I think it was great for B. and me. We became a lot closer, and we learned to laugh at our situation. Who wouldn't laugh when we realized I could totally understand her when she talked about meeting G.'s parents?
I am over G. though, if anyone asks. And my gosh, a lot of well-meaning people have asked.
There were things about him that just weren't right for me. But that doesn't mean they aren't right for B.
I'm just glad B.'s in the best place she could be now. And I'm glad our friendship's more than boys and other not-so-important things.
I wish them both well. I just wanted to say I love you, B., and I love all our other friends. And that won't really change.
Daisy on 2/28/2008 11:44:00 AM
So I'm Daisy (or fedora_girl)
I'm (naturally) wearing the fedora.
I'm a Chemical Engineering student --- getting that degree sometimes involves putting my brain through a strainer --- who also enjoys living life and eating like every meal is my last meal.
I'm a child of God, and that gives my life meaning.
I adore my family and friends. We spend a lot of time together, so they occasionally come up in my posts.
I also take pictures, do computer work, and scribble. I use Adobe Photoshop for long periods of time, and design blogs. I submit most of my good photos and drawings in
my DeviantArt account, and my blog designs in
my Blogskins account.
I read a lot. My favorite books of all time are the Holy Bible,
Pride & Prejudice,
The Scarlet Pimpernel,
The Boy Who Could Fly,
The Nanny, &
Charlie & The Chocolate Factory.
I don't like watching TV because I feel it gives me wrong ideas about the real world. I'm partial to period dramas, musicals and other good movies though. A few that I like are
Pride & Prejudice (2005 version),
North & South (a BBC TV drama),
Facing The Giants,
Sixteen Candles, &
Singin' In The Rain.
I love music; I like a lot of genres. I'm getting into country music and some good rock at the moment. I also adore movie soundtracks and songs that are more than 60 years old.
And about this blog...
It's pretty much a personal thing. It's filled to the brim with my escapades, thoughts, stuff I make, and just plain observations. Random, really.
Hope you enjoy it!